Tag: writer
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Everchanging Love & Some Dark Truths
A lot of emotional shedding lately and I’m wondering if I’ve fallen off the wagon. Or maybe it’s just this dark weather in June that has me in the feels. Rightfully continuing to change the course of my life so I can stay in motion. So, I can. Be happy? So, I can. Find my…
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May Your Home be You
I never thought I’d be roaming like this. Sleeping in random places and moving in between spaces with solitude of where to call my “home”. Not looking for pity or attention. More so to bring light to a unique situation. That of a painful past and bright future. Now I understand why homeless become “homeless”.…
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Shine Around Each Corner
With great hotness comes great responsibility. Yeah, I said it! I’m done. I’m done belittling who I am to make others feel secure. I’m done downplaying my skills, looks or abilities just so people around me don’t feel threatened. In fact. I’m done exposing my personal self-doubts in catering for other’s well-being. Of course, ideally…
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Late Night Conversations
It’s impossible for me to sleep tonight. I just took my first STEM course exam in hopes of setting myself up to one day enter a PhD program in observational Astronomy. Before I get to that you must know. . . I wasn’t always interested in science. But a couple of years back, during what…
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Value Your Sex Life
Women sexuality. Stop the shame and let’s move on, yes? Minority women suffer the most. As a Hispanic, the idea to be a sexually active human being means you no longer belong to the family tree AND you must live in sin for the rest of your life. No turning back now. I know this…
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Unlimited Love – Sensitivity Doesn’t Exist
The practice of losing control and learning to take it back. As women, we still seem to face pressure in being seen as “crazy” or “over emotional” beings. Dramatic. Etc. The truth is far from these negative connotations. I’m learning that “sensitivity” is a false construct we’ve placed as a description to try to avoid…
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Conventional Therapy is Not For Everyone
So much abuse, so little conversation. I want to say this about surviving sexual abuse because I’ve noticed through my own experience of learning how to heal, that it’s easy to give up, shut down and isolate during the lows more than not. It took me 5 licensed psychologists, 3 “prescribed” medications, and several…